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Luis Enrique Mendez Angulo
September 19, 1978 – November 3, 2018
Luis Enrique Mendez Angulo, 40, writer, photographer and world traveller passed on November 3, 2018. A Celebration of Life will be held at Manantial de Gracia “Spring of Grace” (The Chapel at First Church) 12 South Main Street, West Hartford, CT on Saturday, November 10, 2018 2PM.
His beloved wife Marlena Cannon and faithful service companion, Fillmore the Dog; mother and step-father, Maritza and David Gonzalez; and elder sister, Elivette Mendez Angulo express their gratitude to the medical/nursing staff at Hartford Hospital Emergency Room, Bliss 9 & Bliss 11 ICU’s for sharing their gift of healing. We thank you.
In addition, Luis left behind many friends and family including his father, Luis Mendez and siblings Christian, Raul, Myrna and Yashira.
A graduate of Hartford Public High School, Central Connecticut State University, Luis achieved his dream of completing his Master’s Degree in Creative Writing from the University of Manchester in the UK.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations in Luis E. Mendez Angulo’s memory to The American Stroke Foundation (americanstroke.org) and/or The American Heart Association (heart.org).
On this evening I choose to participate in Glitter Ashes at the end of a Glitter Filled Masquerade Ball.
Actually deeper than that, I choose to intentionally invite a group of people who for many reasons have felt unwelcome at church… for whom the space that I consider so sacred and holy has been a closed door (as it has at times been for me). We offered glitter ashes, not for the LGBTQ community, but rather for the community of revelers, partiers, dancers, revolution starters, justice and pleasure seekers and workers. Because God travels with us into our many sanctuaries, and cries along side us in our times of grief and those are way too often. And if God is always really with us, and I believe God is: then glitter and tears and smell goods and stale messes all mixed into what became our sacred ashes.
Yeah, that is…
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It makes sense that Mardi Gras should become part of my series of favorite religious holidays. After all, the seldom told story (at least in my family) is that Mardi Gras (also known as: Shrove Tuesday or Fat Tuesday) is the final day, the culmination of the Christian Feast that commenced on Three Kings Day (El Dia de los Reyes, Epiphany). Y El Dia de los Reyes, is my favorite!!!
The morning after Mardi Gras, we begin the season of Lenten Fasting, we partake in the sharing of Ashes on Ash Wednesday as a PUBLIC affirmation of our faith in God. Lent lasts 46 days (40 days of fasting which excludes the 6 Sundays which are not days of fast). These occur before Easter.
Every year I try to figure out ahead of time what I will “give up” as my Lenten Fast… For the last few years I have done…
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Glitter Ashes, Masquerade ball to mark the beginning of Lent in Massachusetts LGBTQ community
Written by Connie Larkman
A couple of United Church of Christ pastors find God in glitter. And on Ash Wednesday, they hope scores of others can too. They will be distributing glitter infused ashes during a midnight worship service in Massachusetts on Wed., March 1, that follows a Fat Tuesday masquerade ball.
“God promised us beauty for ashes, and after the fires my fellow LGBTQ brothers and sisters have endured, we are the beauty that remains after ruin,” said the Rev. George Oliver, senior pastor of Christ’s Community Church, Chicopee, Mass. “We did not die, and we continue to struggle to keep the faith.”
He and Elivette Mendez Angulo, project coordinator for the UCC’s El Proyecto Encuentros de Gracia y Bienvenida and co-pastor of the Manantial de Gracia UCC congregation in West Hartford, Conn., came up with the idea as part of an effort to reach out to the Chicopee area’s bilingual LGBTQ community to let them know there is a sanctuary in town “where all of your authentic self is welcome.”
Encuentros de Gracia y Bienvenida is an arm of the church that talks about the intersection of the Latinx community and the LGBTQ community and how faith holds the two together.
The Premier Mardi Gras Masquerade Ball at Christ Community Church on February 28 will feature vogue dancers, drag performers, and live music. It will be part Mardi Gras, part Carnaval, a party to raise and embody the welcome God and the church have for LGBTQ people. The glitter infused ashes, Oliver said, symbolize “that we are not hidden in this faith.”
The masquerade ball/worship service, combining revelry and reverence, will be an opportunity for people who feel outside, or ‘othered’ to find community, Mendez Angulo said. “It’s very important to be meeting people where they feel comfortable to let them know God loves them.”
She partnered with Oliver, who pastors a church founded in the 1830’s that now is a primarily African American ONA (Open and Affirming) congregation in a community that is predominantly Latinx, to brainstorm ways to be present as pastoral care providers to people who might have felt excluded from traditional religion. Christ Community Church (C4) has also invited LGBTQ clergy in the Pioneer Valley to be present as allies.
“Incorporating the LGBTQ community, especially the component that is people of color, into the center of our worship means that the Church, which historically and presently has inflicted the wounds of stigma and shame, has the burden to come more than halfway to remedy what we’ve done against people merely pursuing love and acceptance,” said Oliver. “Like the Apostle Paul said of Jesus, I bear the marks, and rejection exacted a high penalty on what felt like mutually exclusive pursuits in my life: being true to myself, and faithful to the call on my life. I hope that this worship innovation spares some young man or woman from feeling exiled from the communion of saints.”
“Glitter is helping to connect me to God,” said Mendez Angulo. “We walk into a masquerade ball, fully masked and hidden, and walk into the sanctuary unmasked and be who we have always been.”
The glitter component, which Mendez Angulo sees “as a starting point for some uncomfortable conversations about what we can create together,” was provided by a partnership with Parity, a New York-based advocacy group asking Christians who favor LGBT equality to show support by wearing “glitter ash” on their foreheads to mark Ash Wednesday on March 1.
“The Ball came as a response to Parity’s #glitterashwednesday initiative,” said Oliver. “We conceived of adding celebration to the normally somber Ash Wednesday services, since celebration is a key aspect uniting Black Church, Latinx, and LGBTQ worship. Thus the Ball will offer the church and these communities a new way to allow their distinct cultures to innovate Christian life.”
“Throw glitter, not shade,” said Mendez Angulo. “So many times people when they find out who you are, they throw shade at you, they shame you and belittle you. But glitter shines, sticks to you, gives you hope, makes you smile. Jesus shines in the midst of tumultuous times – that’s where we landed. For me it’s easy, this is important and I want to do it.”
“As people hear about what we’re planning, they become instantly inspired and excited,” said Oliver. “I mean, who doesn’t want to be down with a little revelry before we get reverent? This mark that will appear on our heads will remind us and all the world that Jesus died and rose again even for us. We may have been pushed to the periphery by the church, but we are not forgotten by God.”
Or by the UCC.
“God is glittering inside of me, whether you see it or night,” Mendez Angulo, a licensed pastor who said that ‘Throw glitter, not shade’ is going to be the theme for her ordination service. “God is shining bright. My uniqueness is welcomed by God, created by God. Can’t put me on the sidelines and say this is not the way we are going to do church.”
Prior to Pastor Maritza’s leaving on Sabbatical, I preached:
Song: Welcome into this place (acapela)
Song: A Wing and a Prayer
Call to Community: Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8
Leader: For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
GOD’S GIFT IS TIME, even to rest
a time to be born, and a time to die;
a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
All: GOD’S GIFT IS TIME, even to rest
3 a time to kill, and a time to heal;
a time to break down, and a time to build up;
All: GOD’S GIFT IS TIME, even to rest
4 a time to weep, and a time to laugh;
a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
All: GOD’S GIFT IS TIME, even to rest
5 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
a time to embrace, and a time to refrain…
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My sincerest apologies for getting this note out late this week, but I have some great news to share with each of you… Mis sinceras disculpas por enviar esta notita tan tarde esta semana, pero tengo tremendas noticias…
As of Thursday Pastora Elivette Mendez Angulo has been approved by The Hartford Association of the Connecticut Conference’s Committee on Ministry to present at Ecclesiastical Council! THANKS BE TO GOD! What does this mean… let us talk about it around the communion table this Sunday. El Jueves la Pastora Elly fue aprobada por la Association de Hartford de la Conferencia de Connecticut atraves del Comite de Ministerios para presentar se en el Concilio Ecclesiatico! GRACIAS A DIOS! Que quiere decir esto… hablaremos en la mesa de communion este domingo.
The days theme and title is: “Shout it out”. We will be reading Isaiah 58: 1-12. We will be meeting in Friendship-Fellowship Rooms, for spaghetti lunch and communion. Enter through the doors that lead to the labyrinth… El tema y el titulo del día sera “Grita lo”. Leeremos Isaias 58:1-12. Y nos reunimos en Friendship-Fellowship Rooms, para un almuerzo de espaguetis en conjunto con la santa cena. Favor de entrar por las puertas afrente del laberinto…
As we continue to read and study the Beatitudes we hope to see you at Seated at the Table: Bible Study, Wednesday at 7pm in the Fireside Room. Continuamos leyendo y estudiando las Beatitudes les esperamos Sentados en la Mesa: Estudiando la Palabra, el miércoles a las 7pm en el Fireside Room.
Know that you and we are each loved by our Creator. Sepa que somos amados poe nuestrx Creador.
Smooches and Blessings,
Pastoras Elly and Maritza